How can you make social media work in your relationship? 

Talk to your partner openly about how you want to handle social media—from Twitter to Facebook to Instagram and other apps/sites.

Be honest if something you found online about your partner bothers you.

Don’t judge or criticize yourself for your feelings.

Be aware that small gestures can take on unintentional or bigger meanings.

Recognize the difference between your public and private lives—and that the two spheres can impact each other in both directions.